The leadership quality of a person does not depend on his ability to make others obey. It depends on the way he sets examples to others. There are basically four qualities that a person requires to be a successful leader. Most of the people will be having these qualities but a true leader should always try to develop it further.
The goals that you have to achieve must be placed in such a way to enhance the quality of your life. You can categorize your goals into four categorize. You first and primary goal must be to build healthy and happy relationships. You will be able to lead a happier personal and professional life if you can love and be loved by others. A happy relationship will help you to adjust with people around you. When you can give respect to others they will also respect you. Your interactions as a social being depend on your ability to build happy relationships.
The verbal breathing synchronization technique is used to build a rapport between you and the subject. Rapport is a strong relationship and faithfulness between two individuals. Once you build up a strong rapport with the subject, influencing or persuading them will be a trivial task. Verbal breathing synchronization is a powerful tool used in covert hypnosis to build a fast and strong rapport with other people even if it is a stranger.
We have already seen the basics of verbal breathing synchronization for inducing rapport with a person without his knowledge.
Post hypnosis instructions are used to take advantage from response of the subject to a stimulus. This is actually called classical conditioning by which stimulus responses are utilized to perform covert hypnosis.
The characteristics of stimulus response can be classified basically into three
1.Stimulus response triggers happens at anytime.
2.Stimulus response triggers can be setup and initiated secretly.
3.The conscious mind will be unaware of stimulus response links.
Generally you can prove covert hypnosis to be effective only after applying it yourself. There is no visual of scientific evidence to show that covert hypnosis works. Proofs can be commonly categorized into scientific, testimonial and personal experience. Each has its own advantage and disadvantage.
The researches are proved scientifically in the laboratories. Evidences, experiments and theoretical support are required to support such proofs. Such researches can be quantitative or qualitative.
The encrypted instructions are used in covert hypnosis to give some message to the unconscious mind without the knowledge of conscious mind.
Encrypted questions are instructions disguised instruction within a question.
Encrypted instructions can be given to the subject in three ways.
1. Encrypted Questions
2. Substitution
3. Reversal
Encrypted Questions
Normally instructions are given carelessly in a format like,
“Hey you, clean that Room.”
Traditional hypnosis method uses fixed techniques, rigid models and vulnerable scales for inducing trance in the subjects. Every human being is different from another and their response cannot be predicted. You cannot follow a single rigid method the evaluate everyone. Covert hypnosis teaches a person to adjust the methods of hypnosis depending on a person and his behavior. The methods are customized to suit specific needs and situations.
The covert hypnosis process can be easily organized into six simple components. Each of the components is interrelated. You will have to learn and practice each component. Numerous examples are provided for each specific tool and its application.
The covert hypnosis technique can be represented using the following model.
C onversational Model
O rganized Multiple Stories
V erbal-Breathing Synchronization
E ncrypted Instructions
R epackaging Sensory Input
The definition of hypnosis in the dictionary is “a sleep like state” or “to be in a state that resembles sleep”. But people who are practicing hypnosis will strongly stand against this definition. Hypnotists fell that it is just the opposite to the state of sleep. Some feel that a person under hypnosis will be more alert and conscious and some others say that it is neither a state of full consciousness or full unconsciousness. But according to covert model, hypnosis cannot be defined since such a state does not exist.